{"id":128,"date":"2022-02-11T02:59:37","date_gmt":"2022-02-11T02:59:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/coachjlo.com\/?p=128"},"modified":"2022-02-11T02:59:37","modified_gmt":"2022-02-11T02:59:37","slug":"i-just-want-you-to-understand-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/coachjlo.com\/i-just-want-you-to-understand-me\/","title":{"rendered":"I JUST WANT YOU TO UNDERSTAND ME!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Regardless of how compatible or in love we are, it is important to realize that we don\u2019t all deal with our emotions in the same way.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>While some of us may openly accept and express feelings; others may choose to deal - by simply not dealing at all! Their initial reaction might be to step back or run away.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re on the receiving end of a \u201cretreating\u201d partner this could easily stimulate feelings of abandonment or rejection creating a situation where emotions run high, and everyone loses.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Both are in pain and even if one appears to have \u201cshut down\u201d they're equally suffering on the inside and unable to express it.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A huge amount of love, understanding and patience is the only way you\u2019ll bridge this \u201cgap\u201d.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Rather than avoiding your discomfort with emotional confrontation, each must share their concerns and negotiate a path you both can follow!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Don\u2019t allow this difference to destroy your relationship!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><br>\u201cSeek first to understand, then to be understood.\u201d ~ Stephen Covey&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Let\u2019s talk!\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"216\" height=\"233\" src=\"https:\/\/coachjlo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/unnamed-20.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-130\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Jenny L. O'Neil - aka Coach JLO<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Regardless of how compatible or in love we are, it is important to realize that we don\u2019t all deal with our emotions in the same way.&nbsp; While some of us may openly accept and express feelings; others may choose to deal - by simply not dealing at all! Their initial reaction might be to step [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachjlo.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/128"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachjlo.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachjlo.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachjlo.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachjlo.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=128"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/coachjlo.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/128\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":131,"href":"https:\/\/coachjlo.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/128\/revisions\/131"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/coachjlo.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=128"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachjlo.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=128"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/coachjlo.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=128"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}